Playing Dead

(Playing Dead is not found in the big book of alcoholics anonymous nor is it AA approved literature. Playing Dead is a How It Works Global practice read at the end of each meeting)

The term or principle “Play Dead” is a vital tool in the How It Works Global Group members’ program of recovery from Alcoholism, and we must play dead to help recover from an abnormal mind and body that constantly looks for the negative and makes everything about us. The big book states very clearly that resentments are the number one offender and destroy more alcoholics than anything else.

When Playing Dead we have no resentments. Just ask yourself “How has my alcoholism caused dismay or damage in the lives of others? Would situations have been better without my alcoholic reactivity, opinions, resentments, selfpity, or self-seeking motives?”. From this realisation, we approach life and respond to its challenges by giving rather than taking. We ask ourselves, “How can I be of help here?” Rather than, “what can I get?” By Playing Dead we remember not to take anything personally. We bring this attitude into our homes, work and social life.

Addictions and resentments can go away temporarily, but the abnormal state of mind and body is permanent, so we need a permanent answer to treat this permanent illness. Playing Dead helps us to respond to life with the principles of patience, tolerance, consideration, respect, kindness and love. We become a listener when Playing Dead, and we will see a much clearer reality, without being blinded by resentments, judgements, fears or prejudices by keeping our eyes, ears and minds open.

Recovery from Alcoholism is a lifelong journey and is done one day at a time and includes attending meetings and studying the big book. We alcoholics are undisciplined people and by committing to this simple program and by using the tool of Playing Dead, we will find a power that will not only help us overcome alcoholism but will also bring about the spiritual awakening promised in step 12. The personality change brought about by Playing Dead will be immediately apparent to those around you and you will be uniquely helpful to your family, your friends, and other alcoholics in need of the solution you have.